16-year-old steals $50 of prescription beauty products from her sister-in-law, ends up with egregious skin irritations as a result: ‘She blamed me [but] I hadn’t expected her to dig through my drawers’

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  • "AITAH for accidentally letting my sister in law get chemical burns on her face"

    My husband (26M) and I (26F) bought our first home 7 months ago. His younger sister (16F), who just got her license, frequently shows up unannounced and has trouble taking 'no' for an answer.
  • Last Friday, she came over after dinner and asked to stay the night. We agreed since we had no plans. She asked to shower, so we let her use ours, as our guest bathroom isn't stocked yet. I splurge on salon-quality haircare products
  • because my hair is unruly, and my $27 shampoo bottle was brand new. Later, I found half the shampoo and nearly all the conditioner gone, along with my skincare scattered across the counter. She'd used almost $50 worth of hair products, and all of
  • my skin stuff including my prescription skincare stored in a pharmacy bag. I asked her to bring her own products next time, as I wasn't comfortable with how much she used. I was in no way r de I just
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  • explained the I splurge on really expensive products and can't afford to have 50+ dollars of product gone everytime she showers here. She called me selfish in a passive aggressive way and ended up leaving.
  • By Tuesday, her skin was red, peeling, and breaking out terribly. At dinner with my in-laws Tuesday, she blamed me for not warning her about my skincare. I explained I hadn't expected her to dig through my drawers and use prescription products, which are expensive and
  • took my skin weeks to adjust to. My Father in Law said I should pay for a doctor visit, but my husband refused, arguing that at 16, she should know better and that it was inappropriate for her to look through my medicine bag to even find the prescription product that I was likely the culprit for the irritation.
  • Am I at fault for not warning her? I wouldn't go through someone's personal products, let alone use their stuff like it was my own. I would've been happy to share some skin products, not my prescription cream. She also brought up that I got mad she
  • used so much shampoo and conditioner and basically made me look really bad in front of my in laws. Admittedly I was upset about the shampoo and conditioner and the fact that she left a huge mess
  • on the counter, but I was very calm and just explained money is tight as we just bought our house and I didn't want her to use months of products in one shower. Anyways let me know what you all think?
  • Radiant Humor5110 It's dangerous to use someone's prescription medication. Why was she messing around with your medicine period. Keep repeating this to your in laws. I hope she's not messing with other people's medicine too.
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  • Educational-Rest4256 Yep! I am assuming she's heard of the particular product I have and I am hoping that is why she used it. She was super into the skincare craze a while ago. I am upset but not surprised that she looked through all of our stuff. She would love to find something she could try to embarrass me with, but she should have learned over the years it hasn't worked on me lol.
  • compassrunner She is old enough to read a label and see cream is prescription. Definitely need to set boundaries here with her.
  • Educational-Rest4256 yep husband and I are both cutting out the sleepovers and unannounced visits after this. She not only could tell it was prescription but I keep the cream separate in the paper pharmacy bag in the drawer. So she also was looking through my prescriptions when she came across it.
  • NoSatisfaction 6 6 Yeah, she f ed around and found out like an idiot. Plus, she majorly wasted a lot of hair and skin products like a . I'm surprised OP didn't make her pay for the products SHE wasted.
  • I feel like there should be more consequences, but the 16 year old already sounds like her face is melting off.
  • forgetregret1day. You didn't accidentally let her do anything. She used your personal products without permission and didn't have the sense to see that some of them were by prescription.
  • This is 100% on her for stealing things she wasn't offered, acting like it was her right to do so then whining when, oh no, there were actual consequences to her selfishness. And where does
  • FIL get off trying to get you to pay for her doctor visit to sort out what she did to herself? This whole thing is nuts. From now on, lock up all your personal products when she's around and get better at saying no until she learns respect for other people's things and understands that she can't just take whatever she wants.
  • Ok Routine9099 She used prescription products and your in-laws want you to take responsibility. Nah. They need to teach her to read (not being mean, what she did is dangerous)

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